Emotionally abusive boyfriend, should I dump him?

I'm a sophomore in high school, and I'm dating a junior in high school. We started dating back in the Winter time, and he really, really is into me.

Like almost love, probably. I never fully liked him; it was more that he was chasing me, and then I finally gave in and decided to go out with him. Now, I've realized that I no longer have feelings towards him. He always treated me fine, and he was extremely caring and loving, but I just realized I was too young for anything serious and that I didn't like the drama that followed high school relationships and would rather wait till college.

I told him this, and he said he was fine. But now, a week later, he's begging me to stay with him; I was his first real girlfriend. He says he's in love with me, and that he will be broken if I leave. He also said that he doesn't care if I don't like him, and that he wants me to lie and pretend I do so that I'd still be with him. He's always telling me how much this hurts him, and he's making me feel extremely guilty, so I'm still with him. I am miserable. I feel like this is a type of abuse, but I'm not sure. He's going crazy though. He refuses to see reason, and still pretends that everything is great and that I love him.

He can't accept we're on a break, and he's making a huge deal out of it. He's claiming he'll wait for me, and he'll never stop loving me, and that he'll be ready to take me back if I want him. It's making me feel awful. What do I do? I have to see him all next year and the next, and we're going on a 10 day trip next April with other classmates, and his best friends will all be there. I want to move on, but I feel as though if I ever did meet someone I really liked, he'd always be in the shadows, haunting my every move and trying to get back in my life and ruining it until I went out with him again. I need help!

huh, that seems really a problem! Wait some time or one difficult thing can be to move to some other school or town.

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What's that all about Hyper?

browneyes, did you finally resolve the issue with the boyfriend? Is he still abusing you or you got out?

So did you get rid of him yet?