Bachelor parties...Do you have a problem with them ????

Bachelorette parties too if they apply.

A female friend of mine whose name will remain anonymous told me something that up until that point I didn't want to think that women put too much thought or had too many strong feelings about anyway: Bachelor parties.

Her message was that she would have a major problem honestly with a fiance of hers having a bachelor party of any type. Claiming that it is disrespectful to the one he is about to marry and being creeper out by the thought of some "nasty" strippers grinding on him.

My opinion on this is ... a bachelor party in the grand scheme of things is likely harmless. Also you can often times judge by the type of person a man is and also his friends and associates how likely he is to throw a bachelor party. So you should be able to have a really good idea before a party even happens, or even before a proposal happens.

Only big issues I could see is if the stripper is doing full service type stuff. Then that's technically cheating.

On a personal level only, I can't see myself ever throwing a bachelor party due to my position on strippers and how I think stripping w/o any sex happening after wards is overrated. But I still am confident I could say to a friend go on ahead and do it, what have you got to lose?

Surely however especially on the internet there are gonna be people who disagree wholeheartedly with the idea of a bachelor party. All I'd like to hear is everybody's opinion whether good or bad.

IMO the party is irrelevant, the issue is about trust. So many people don't have trust and shouldn't be in that situation to begin with.