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Posted: Dec 14, 2009 6:31 PM Could use some advice for girl I am dating
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So I have been dating this girl for about a month now, and everything was going good. :bndance:

We have been out on a couple dates, everything was fine, lots of cuddling and kissing but nothing beyond that as she wants to take things slow as she just got out of a 3 year relationship.

She on a regular basis texts me and calls me occasionally, always telling me how much she likes me, tells her friends about me and so forth. Our conversations are always good and never really a dull moment.

This past Sunday, we were having a convo by text, made plans for this weekend and then she suddenly stopped replying. Nothing went wrong in the convo. :dunno:

Since Sunday, she has been very non-responsive, hasnt texted me. I didnt text her Monday(was waiting for a response) and she didnt text me. Tuesday I called her phone and she didnt pick up or call/text me back. :banghead:

Yesterday I sent her a text, we were having a convo and it was good, she gave me a compliment and then I told her to call me after work and she said she would. She didnt. :smile:

I know its not, being busy, because she has made time to text call me in the past while.

So now its Thursday and I am not exactly sure what to do?

Do I just leave it for today, text her tomorrow(friday) and try and make plans for the weekend?

If she flakes do I ask her whats wrong? How do I go about asking this?

Do I ask her whats wrong right away? :grumpy:

I'm not exactly sure whats going on and could use some advice. Do not want to end up like :argue:

If you need more information please ask.

Thanks a bunch

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Posted: Dec 14, 2009 10:26 PM Re: Could use some advice for girl I am dating
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Sounds like your in a relationship buddy. :friday:

Do you guys consider each other boyfriend and girlfriend? If so, you might wanna ask her whats been up with her :cheer:

Honestly I don't want to hurt you, but the same thing happened to my ex where all of a sudden she become unusually non responsive. what ended up happening was she cheated on me with another guy. Get to the bottom of the situation. :headache:

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Posted: Dec 20, 2009 1:46 PM Re: Could use some advice for girl I am dating
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Hello there Dude,

I think you should try to visit her personally and talk to her what is wrong and discuss everything. So talk to her heart to heart so that you will be able to know if she still loves you. I experienced this miss before she cheated on me but I what I did, I enjoyed myself in online dating just to forget my past. Im very right now because I found her at clickhere-perfectmatch dot com. And we have been together now for almost 2 years.

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Posted: Dec 20, 2009 8:40 PM Re: Could use some advice for girl I am dating
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Make other plans.

In this case, if we were discussing plans over the weekend (usually done during the week - not the week before), and she stops replying, I would leave a message and tell her to call me back tonight, if not, then I'm going to go ahead and make other plans.

A couple of dates.... not really much to invest in yet.

Anyone who says they're getting out of a relationship and taking things slow, and doesn't get back to you, assume they're seeing other people.

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