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Join Date: Feb, 2009
Posts: 5
Gender: Male
Location: USA
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I have been seeing this girl for around 10 weeks now, the last month or so we're starting to feel really close and it seems like a real solid base for a relationship. she wants to come over to mine most nights and stays over maybe 3-4 times a week.
Now as much as i enjoy her company i cant help but feel the regularity of getting together may prove detrimental in the long term. Thing is, its normally her that asks to come round, lets do something etc... so should i be knocking her back more ?
although we are close, she is still semi tangled up in a former relationship and while i'm aware of the need to be scarce from time to time, i dont want to push her away too much. not to mention the fact that i enjoy her company and am honestly glad to see her when she comes over.
any thoughts on this, and the general question of how much time to spend together at this stage?
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