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Join Date: Dec, 2009
Posts: 1
Gender: Male
Location: USA
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Hey guys I have been seeing this girl for 3 months seriously but we started of FB's. After reading a few posts I can already see that I am the too nice guy! I do too much and show too much of my feelings and emotions for her. I make it too easy for her. I started out the "bad boy" when we first met and even though we were having great sex she hated me. Now we are together she says how different I am. One night she told she loves me, followed by "I'm not in love with you..... yet" 
We are now 3 months in and she still doesn't introduce me to her friends or invite me out with them. She's friends with all my group and we still have a great time. She has told me that she takes a while to get used to the "relationship" thing cause she is so independent. How do I get her to start chasing me or do you have any other advice because I keep over thinking everything and even though I totally love her I was going to end it the other day cause I'm scared she will..... 
Thanks
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Join Date: Feb, 2009
Posts: 5
Gender: Male
Location: USA
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Your post has the answer in it. You need to be a "bad boy" if you want her to keep chasing you. Nice guys are only in women's dreams, not in reality. And they tehmeselves crave for controlling and dominating dude. Get rid of that nice guy image, and take control.
Good Luck, buddy!
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