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Posted:
Dec 18, 2009 8:19 PM
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How to approach a Cougar?
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Join Date: Jun, 2009
Posts: 11
Gender: Male
Location: Canada
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Hey fellow potential daters,
Does anyone have good ways/openers/routines etc to use on cougars? When it comes to the cougar area of pick up I know that when using the right material it can be almost easier to pick up cougars than 20-somethings.
So does anyone have good field tested material to use on cute cougars  ? Thanks for any help!
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Dec 18, 2009 8:22 PM
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Re: How to approach a Cougar?
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Join Date: Jul, 2009
Posts: 8
Gender: Male
Location: USA
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You don't pick cougars up - they pick you up.
Seriously though, cougars are much easier to approach and chat up than 20-somethings. Cougs are flattered that a young guy would even talk to them, let alone run game. The most difficult part is always the age gap. Cougs will test you on this. When they ask my age I make them guess. When they say they are too old, or they could be my mom, I just say, "too bad for you." It disqualifies their disqualifier. Then I run a DHV story about how age is irrelevant since most people never date people their exact age anyway, but rather people who are on the same level of maturity.
Negs are usually unnecessary. Just be confident and self assured!
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Dec 21, 2009 4:07 PM
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Re: How to approach a Cougar?
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Join Date: Jul, 2009
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Gender: Female
Location: USA
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I experienced while gaming that if you make a point about your age, it will become the point.
Be confident about your age.
The trick is to give them some feelings they had when they were young. Bring them in the mood. Play the teacher/student role.
An little opener: "Hey, you look like my mum, i need to ask you something, can you teach me how to be as calm and friendly as you are appearing?  "
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Dec 22, 2009 4:56 PM
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Re: How to approach a Cougar?
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Join Date: Jun, 2009
Posts: 14
Gender: Female
Location: USA
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Wow, everyday I hear the new terms. Now, it's cougar, eh? I have also been hearing about "Puma" as well. I guess, younger guys are falling for older women, feeling more secure financially and emotionally. I like the trend and feel for women in the past who could not enjoy this newfound luxury and fun passtime.
Go Demi Moore!    
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Posted:
Dec 23, 2009 8:33 PM
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Re: How to approach a Cougar?
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Join Date: May, 2009
Posts: 7
Gender: Male
Location: USA
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browneyes wrote:I experienced while gaming that if you make a point about your age, it will become the point.
Be confident about your age.
The trick is to give them some feelings they had when they were young. Bring them in the mood. Play the teacher/student role.
An little opener: "Hey, you look like my mum, i need to ask you something, can you teach me how to be as calm and friendly as you are appearing? "
You sure these are appropriate techniques. I do not think any older woman / cougar would like to be compared with your mother, would she?
And bringing them in teacher / student role, what's that all about? Bringing in role playing comes only after you start going out. That initial phase is what the OP is all about.
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Dec 31, 2009 3:14 AM
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Re: How to approach a Cougar?
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Join Date: Jun, 2009
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Gender: Female
Location: USA
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You will find a cougar woman is more likely to be attracted to you if you seem like a fun, relaxed guy. Look in her direction and she should return your look. When you catch her eye, smile. Cougar women look after themselves and are generally in good shape and well groomed. You should be too.  
There are many other pointers to pick up a cougar women. Will post them as I remember. Good Luck trying these tips till then ...
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