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Join Date: Mar, 2009 Posts: 14 Gender: Male Location: USA
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I'm going through a mutual break-up right now. We were together for more than a year and lived together for more than 4 months. For the last few months things have been bitter for both of us. I think that ours was relationship based on wrong grounds. I had been alone for a very long time and desperate for love so I jumped into relationship with the very first girl who wanted to be with me. And she was still living with her mom and sister. I had my own apartment and car. Love was the only thing I was looking for and was ready to offer life comfortably whoever came into my life.
Now I know that in the future I will be very careful to what my heart says. Won't make any hasty decisions. I still have some feelings towards her and there is still a lot of her stuff in my apartment. I feel like keeping in touch with her but should I? Would that be such a good idea, although I am here looking for love, but take it very slow this time around.
Any advice from people who have been in the same situation would be appreciated.
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Join Date: Jun, 2009 Posts: 14 Gender: Female Location: USA
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So not a good idea to keep in touch with her, if you really really want to move on. Unfriend her on facebook, unfollow her on Twitter and do not be friends with her. It won't do you two any good. If you are looking for love, to be fair to the new gal, you should not keep in touch with your ex.
My 2 cents!
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