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Jun 2, 2009 3:53 AM
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Am I being irrational? Overreacting? Jeolous?
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Join Date: Jun, 2009
Posts: 1
Gender: Female
Location: USA
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I've been with my boyfriend for 11 months now and I can't help but feel jealous and insecure about his past relationships. My boyfriend used to be a flirt a while ago, but he stopped it recently. I can't help but feel angry at myself for dealing with all that flirting and I'm also angry that he is still is friends with his ex's. Am I being irrational? I want to forgive him, but I'm just mad that I wasn't treated better. I want to stop being mad about it. What can I do?
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Jun 22, 2009 8:36 PM
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Re: Am I being irrational? Overreacting? Jeolous?
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Join Date: Mar, 2009
Posts: 22
Gender: Female
Location: Australia
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I think you are NOT overreacting. Looking at his past, any of his girlfriend would feel the same you are feeling right now. If he stopped flirting recently, it will take some time for you to start trusting him also. You will see a pattern that he is not flirting anymore, and slowly as you see his behaviour your present feelings of jealousy will mellow down.
Can't say anything about the ex if it is normal or not. Would like others to response on this one.
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Jun 23, 2009 6:48 PM
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Re: Am I being irrational? Overreacting? Jeolous?
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Join Date: Jun, 2009
Posts: 29
Gender: Female
Location: USA
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I think you are overreacting. You have to trust your guy when he says he has stopped flirting. If you don't, you are pushing him away from yourself and towards flirting thingy again. So, learn to trust your guy and enjoy your lovelife.
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