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May 29, 2009 3:13 AM
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Is feeling jealous normal while engaged?
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Join Date: May, 2009
Posts: 1
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
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Hey people, I got a question most of you I know might have run into. Well, let me be clear about one thing guys. I love my fiance very much, but I know his personality. He can be quite wild at times and think certain comments and actions are ok. Well last night we got to talking about our wedding night and all traditions regarding that. Our conversation eventually moved into the bachelor party on both sides. According to him, this is our "last night of freedom". Well, I am not really sure, but I'm very concerned about my future husband. He said clearly that he was going and stop as he starts to feel a buzz coming, but still have a good time. He also said if his friends dare him to do something he is going to do it.
Well, .... realizing temptation and drinking shouldn't ever go together makes me feel something between jealousy and anger when I think of what might happen. Looking for some advice from those who have been in my shoes but a little closer to the date and even some after the big day. And also what is the norm for a bachelor party, as I have no idea what that is all about?
From my side, I will most likely go to a bar, have a few drinks with friends I haven't seen in a while and will call it a night. Just really worried guys, what's going to happen at the bachelor party guys. Should I be worried?
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May 29, 2009 4:01 AM
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Re: Is feeling jealous normal while engaged?
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Join Date: Mar, 2009
Posts: 22
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
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Doesn't seem like you have known him long enough. You both don't seem compatible on a lot of things. I believe some traditions aren't meant to be carried on. I never understand why people want to have bachelor parties before the big day and start a life long partnership with trust issues about what may have happened the night before. Never marry someone you don't trust and in your case you don't even seem to get along. Just take things slow until all the doubts you have are answered.
Good Luck!
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Posted:
Jun 6, 2009 2:48 PM
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Re: Is feeling jealous normal while engaged?
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Join Date: Jun, 2009
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Gender: Female
Location: USA
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lvs_73 wrote:
From my side, I will most likely go to a bar, have a few drinks with friends I haven't seen in a while and will call it a night. Just really worried guys, what's going to happen at the bachelor party guys. Should I be worried?
Have you heard of the saying that goes something like this, "let them go, if they really love you they will be back. If they dont, they were never yours in the first place" You have to trust your fiance. And if he is telling you everything that he did with friends I think that's great. Do you want him to instead hide things from you and still keep doing stuff you would frown upon?
Let the dude go, have some fun. If it gets out of control and you see red flags all over the place, then it will be time to fold your sleeves. You too, have fun at your bachelorette (spelling?) party. 
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